, massaged, or otherwise engaged in sexual play, it can offer plenty of enjoyment. This is opposed to the more isolated and direct pleasure from a regular orgasm through masturbation or penetration. OK, on to the fun stuff. It's important to note that you really don't have to go much further than that, particularly on your first try. This stuff takes time, dont get bent out of shape if you dont reach orgasm the first few (or even several) times you try this. Here is how you can have an orgasm through the perineum. Take your index and middle finger and begin applying pressure, lifting up slightly to feel your fingers dig into your perineum. If you cant have an orgasm through the perineum or find you just arent that into this kind of stimulation, thats perfectly. As you expand your experience, youll find that sex becomes less about one specific activity, and more about a combination of pleasurable experiences. He recommends a syringe-like applicator called a lube shooter (6.99) if you're uncomfortable applying lube with your fingers. "It really can open up a whole new avenue of pleasure for men if they are willing to try it adds Milstein. "You always want to buy one with a tail or a wide base that it doesn't get lost up there. (That said, if you're interested, here are 5 surprisingly common penis injuries that can land you in the.). Nu Sensuelle Remote Control 15-function Vibrating Mini Butt Plug (50). "Insert one finger a few inches into your anus and push up toward the rear. Yeah, you heard that correctly. 3) Explore internal stimulation.